If it is going to cause a lot of trouble I suppose I could try and do it, but I am usually bad at meeting deadlines with these sorts of things usually leave it to past the last minute and end up killing myself with late nights trying to get it done.
It is just that the wedding is in 4 weeks, have stress at work right now, and other son is still doing up his first house before he will live in it and he is going for perfection. So while people are helping I have no help with housework, shopping etc, and have a huge amount of extra washing and cooking to do, cooking weekends and washing weekends, I work full time so you can see I am struggling to cope as my health isn't the best either, and hasn't been for a couple of years or more. One day I will get it sorted and have loads of energy to do everything, just watch me go then!
Oh and I will be more careful what I comment on in future! Was just curious, not joining. Didn't read this thread again to realise, or I would have said earlier.